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From Newlywed to Widow: How Sharing my Story Led to Healing and Purpose

The ink had barely dried on their marriage certificate when her life was thrust into an abyss of confusion, loss and despair. Many whom she sought comfort from turned their backs and wanted nothing to do with her. It took five years to garner the courage to share her story. Once she did, the weight slowly began to lift.

Vimbai E. Musvosvi · 13 June 2023
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Bouncing Back Stronger Than Ever After an Abusive Marriage

To onlookers, Vivian Moyana (née Munjanja) embodied success. She was pursuing her MBA, climbing the corporate ladder and had a beautiful family. What they couldn't have imagined was the private battle raging within the four walls of her home. After enduring years of abuse in a toxic marriage, she mustered the strength to leave. This is her story:

Tatenda Rungisa · 13 February 2023
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Award-winning Coach Jessie Mhaka Opens up About Overcoming Clinical Depression, Anxiety & Chronic Stress

Jessie’s journey is one of compounded strength. She recently shared with The Weight She Carries how she has survived clinical depression, an anxiety disorder and chronic stress.

Kim Mukwa · 7 February 2023
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Starting Over: How I Walked Away From Abuse into an Unknown Future

Broken-hearted, bitter and lost, I walked into an unknown future - a future which was uncertain. I had let marriage become a huge part of my identity, and I was not sure what would be next, but I walked away anyway.

Tatenda Rungisa · 4 January 2023
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TWSC Story Update: Constance Garawaziva - "Opportunity Met me at my Lowest"

We first got to know Constance Garawaziva back in 2020 when she shared her story of healing from heartbreak and tragedy. If you missed her story, you'll want to read it first here. Constance is back with us today to give us an update on some new developments in her life.

Kim Mukwa · 22 November 2022
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Determined to Succeed: How I Rose From Tragedy to Triumph

Irene Kendi is an outstanding woman who has faced many challenges but rose above them all. Her childhood was marred by the rejection of her father and the poverty that ensued. There would be tougher days ahead, but Irene refused to let her circumstances dictate her destiny.

Tafadzwa Rungisa · 19 October 2022
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A Second Chance at Life – Pt 2: Finding Love as an HIV+ Woman

A couple of weeks ago, Precious Mwewa Kaniki shared her story of contracting HIV at age 14 and struggling to adhere to treatment until a medical crisis jolted her into action.

Kim Mukwa · 3 October 2022
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Getting to Know Dr. Ratidzo Mutangadura

A few weeks ago, we published a story about the outstanding phenomenon that is Dr. Ratidzo Mutangadura and her charity called Chengetai.

The Weight She Carries · 28 September 2022
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A Second Chance at Life

I tested positive when I was just 14 years old. Honestly, it came as a huge shock to me, and I quickly went into denial mode, which caused me to withdraw from all my family and friends. I was very lonely. There was no one to talk to.

Kim Mukwa · 23 September 2022
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In-depth Story: Lucky Unganqotshwa Mthembu - Rebuilding my Life After an Abusive Relationship

I was engaged to a person who was very abusive emotionally, physically and financially. At the onset of the relationship, he was extremely loving, attentive and the future seemed bright for us.

Tafadzwa Rungisa · 14 September 2022
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My Journey from Unplanned Pregnancy to University Graduate, Author & Founder of Help One Helper

Ntombizodwa is a former domestic worker, university graduate and author of the book Brightness of Diamonds through Soil. She is also the founder and director of the non-profit organization Help One Helper, and above all, a mother to a 17-year-old daughter.

Tafadzwa Rungisa · 9 September 2022
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Becoming Farie Jules: How I Overcame Child Marriage, Depression & Divorce

Farai Juliet Magada, known as Farie Jules, is a daughter, sister, mother, survivor, fighter, believer, emancipated woman, creative, philanthropist and lover of beautiful things. This is her story in her own words.

Tatenda Rungisa · 17 August 2022